The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams- Eleanor Roosevelt
Do you realize how close you are to turning your dreams into your reality?
If you could see how close you are to success, you’d be kicking yourself that you haven’t just
reached out to grab it yet.
The truth is, no matter how much you feel like a
failure, success is literally waiting for you. Success is a process. There’s no short-cut to it. The only thing you have to do, is fight off
the factors that’s holding you back from achieving yours. The top is very free, but at the end only few end up there. There are factors, processes and ways to achieve success. One common thing I realized about all success-oriented personals is that they had to give in something be it their time or resources in order to get to where they are now.
Here are the 3-D factors successful achievers use in turning their dreams into reality.
1. Don’t make Excuses
If we choose someone successful to look at as an epitome, like Steve Jobs or Richard Branson or Bill Gates or Oprah Winfrey, we’ll see that they never made excuses. When things went wrong, they didn’t blame other people, their background and they didn’t refuse to accept responsibility for their own mistakes. I’m not perfect though but there’s time in my life when I was more of an excusing person but since when I made it as a challenge to work on myself, I’ve seen things that are really different. Something about these men is that they neither tried to justify their poor choices nor make excuses because they understood
that failure is going to happen. After forming it as a habit to not make excuses, I got to realize that no matter what us, humans undergo, It’s not the end of the road – it’s just a one step on the road to success. When you think it’s the end of the road, add a B-end, because it’s just a bend away to your desired destination.
2. Don’t get scared of Failure
Like I already said, failure happens. But it’s not a
dead end – it’s just a bend which means you could still rise above it.
Too many people run into a tiny bit of failure,
and they think they’re done forever. They give up
immediately, never realizing how close they were
to achieving their goals.
The problem is, they take failure personally. They
think it means something’s wrong with them. But
the truth is, failure is part of the journey to
success.
That’s why it’s so important that you stop getting scared of it.
3. Don’t Beat up themselves.
Think about it. Can you imagine Bill Gates,
yelling at himself, saying that he’s dumb, or lazy,
or any of the other million insults people tell
themselves? Of course not!
Successful people don’t beat themselves up.
They understand that taking your anger out on
yourself only pushes your goals farther away.
They still get upset, but they channel those emotions into constructive energy. They use that
energy as jet fuel to reach their goals. The truth about success is that you’re closer than you think. Sometimes all it takes is to embrace these factors so you can let your dreams
pour in.
Think Positive, Think Different.
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I agree with #2 100 percent. Statistically 70% of people will quit after failing once. 80% will quit after failing two times and 90% will quit after failing three times. But when it comes to the average millionaire, they have failed at least 3 times before finding success. failure is definitely part of the journey:)
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Hello Vincentcarlos! Yes you’re absolutely right. that’s what we always try to avoid but nonetheless, it’s inevitable. Thanks for your comment.
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Wow ! I have written a poem titled 3D ..am sure you would love it !
https://sjoshifollowyourpassion.wordpress.com/2016/05/19/3d-dream-dedication-determination-2/
Please share , comment and like ! 🙂
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https://sjoshifollowyourpassion.wordpress.com/2016/05/17/failure-a-new-beginning/
Please make sure you read this poem of mine on failure: a new beginning !
This will really rebound you after failure ! Don’t forget to comment , like and share ! 🙂
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Okay! will do so. love poems!
much love.
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